Monday, July 14, 2008

Joseph & Em's wedding

Joseph & Emily's wedding on 5th Jul' 08!
It is the final leg of the wedding marathon in ET zone this year!

(All ready for the gate crash!)
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(Here's the sabo stuff! Spirit of excellence ya?)=



(Jinlian & I)=
(Suting & I)=
(Our chief "Ah Yee"... !)
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(What a big calculator!)

(Are we ready?)
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(Round 1- Cheer for Em!... P.O.S. standard!)
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(Round 2- Limbo Rock!)

(Round 3- Bikini Dance!)

(Round 4- Love Song)


Before winning the bride!!!


(Brave Nicole walkg carefully down the aisle...
Not easy! w ppl standg + many pairs of eyes lookg @ her. Can imagine!)

(The male + female entourage w the lovely couple!)
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Here's Joycelyn... She's the amazing woman behind all the bridesmaids' make up & hairdo! Not easy cos she needs to do it for 5 bridesmaids within a short time and she willingly helped out despite her exam the next day! Thanks girl!
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The wedding dinner itself...
(Lusi, Karen, Jinlian, Del & I)
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(Steph & I)
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(Jing... My "cheong suaw kaki")
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(Gotta guess which is the wife's feet!)
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(Joseph guessed it right!)
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(A loooooooong "Yam Seng" to the couple!!!)
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(A shot after the dinner...)

Em is so sweet...


Before her big day, she wrote a letter to brief the "Ah Yees" abt. the wedding theme etc. and after the wedding dinner, she gave us each a "Thank You" note w a small gift to appreciate the helpers! That's really so Em- a sincere, genuine & thoughtful friend!

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Probably some of you may not know... She's the one who brought me to church and helped me to know this wonderful God that we serve.


What you did really changed my life Em!


So happy for you on your big day!

Congrats to your wedding! You've certainly made a wise choice on Joseph! :)

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Sunday, July 13, 2008

Edmund & Minghui's wedding

Edmund & Minghui's wedding on 21st June!
This is the 2nd leg of the wedding marathon in ET zone. :)
Here are some moments of the BIG day!
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(The "Jie Mei"s gettg ready for the gate crash!)
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(Intimidating ya?)
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(U guys ready for some sabo? *giggle*)
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(Let me in!!! Let me in!!!)
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(Negotiation in process...)
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(Enough of all the talkg... Cheong ah!!!)
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(Yeah! Finally won the bride!)

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Rest of the day at Holy Matrimony...



(my cg & I...)

(Everythg's so purplish!!!)

(Amber is esp. funny!)
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(Yeah!)

(The lovely bride Minghui!!! So dazzling!)
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(Jinlian & I)
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(Xiaowei, Zhifu, Keith)
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(Congrats Edmund & Minghui! Hv a blissful marriage!)
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Saturday, June 14, 2008

Camp Phenomena!


Camp Phenomena was GREAT!!!

It's certainly a good product of the leaders' numerous meetings & plannings...
I thank God that the whole event went well and God is indeed on our side- NO RAIN until all activities ended and when "air-con" is much needed during our grand finale in the school hall. :)

What I enjoy about the camp?
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- The TOUCH from God during Day One worship
I knelt down before God, bared my heart out, cried so much and at the end, needed to borrow tissue to wipe away the sticky pool of tears on the floor, hoping the aircon will quickly dry the wet spot. This is the same touch I experienced during Breakaway camp six months ago and it is exactly for the same encounter that drew me to this camp!
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- The Lifehouse's Everything skit performed by our own zone ppl- Lucas & team. It's awesome! Great job guys!
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- The "Super Heroes Game"
Had fun watching the teams learning different skills and displaying the power in the "battlefield"

- The "Work-in-Process" with the rest of leaders & helpers
I learnt a lot by simply serving. Something in me broke...


I willingly took leave to be PART of the camp...
There's just something about the camp that I can draw from!
The Dynamics, "Sweating-Out-Together", "Let's Make-It-Happen spirit"...

Like how the famous saying goes... "It's the JOURNEY that counts, not the destination."
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Back to Blog!

It has been some time since I last blogged. My apologies to the readers out there...

To make up... Here's what happened in between the entries....

17th May
Jared & Jerb's wedding!
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The Holy Matrimony was held at at SAM (Singapore Arts Museum).
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It was a beautiful afternoon and the hall was overflowed with people!
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The crowd kept cheering for both Jared & Jerb and was so "ra-ra" that Pst. Derek jokingly commented that he would like to take the crowd to every wedding he attends.
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I guess "life & vibrancy" is just part of ET zone's DNA!
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Adding on, the couple is well-loved & respected by the ppl so that's y all of us went to support them in their BIG day!
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I thank Jared, my subzone leader for his wisdom & guidance.
I learnt a lot from him about growing the group and he is indeed one versatile leader who is quick to adjust his style to win ppl.
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I thank God 4 Jerb too. Out of her mouth flows tremendous wisdom...
I still remember during one sharing session, she shared something that has been stucked with me since then... "In order to grow the cg, we as leaders need to grow in our capacity as well!"
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Jerb really loves ppl a lot.
Even during her BIG day, before she marches into the hall, she made an enthusiastic youth feel so important by askg gently, "Are you going to hold the door for me? Wow... Thank you!"
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I'm very blessed to know both of them in the zone and certainly wish them all the best as they enter into the next phase of life together!
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Here are some shots during HM...




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19th May (Vesak Day)
Camp Phenomena Meeting
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The leaders seized the P.H., gathered at Lucas' home to brainstorm ideas for camp.
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We reached ard 2p.m. and stayed till 7-plus before leaving for dinner at Holland V.
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The night was still young and we continued to chill out at "Cosy Upstairs" till 11-plus.
It was a great evening filled with jokes & laughter!
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24th May (Sat)
Noon... Prayer Meetg at Riverwalk
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After PM, some of us went for fellowship at Central Mall.
Here's a shot taken at Clarke Quay...

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Evening... Korean Dinner at Chinatown
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I fulfilled my promise to bring Roy and Jee Hae to try authentic Korean food.
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I Invited my two secondary friends Sharlyn and Tracer along as well. These two friends of mine are very INTO Korean stuff. They have been learning the language for four years, watched countless Korean dramas, and visited the country many times.
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Each time, when we went out together... Out of 10 gatherings, 7 took place in a Korean restaurant cos they wanted to explore different ones in search for the "BEST" Korean food in Singapore!
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And the one that we went to... "Togi", was one of our previous meeting place and coincidentally, it was owned by one of my Korean students (formerly studying in the private school where I used to work in). Ha ha.... We met for the 1st time after 5 years!
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As we opened the menu, Roy and Jee Hae's eyes popped real wide-open! Authentic korean food! They were on all smiles!!!
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(These are pork bellies... lots of fats ya?)
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1.Wrap the fried pork belly + rice into lettuce
2. Put a bit of soya bean paste into the "filling"
3. Pop the whole thing into mouth *Yummy*
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(Next up... Chicken soup! Looks spicy but rest assured it's not so.)
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((Look at the spread on the table! Can u imagine how much we ate?)
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(Chilled out at TCC before heading home...)

It was a night of FUN!

Both Jee Hae and Roy are so funny!

They kept teasing each other and almost every 10mins pop a joke... and all of us are like... laughing NON-STOP!

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Chinese Fusion!

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Chinese "华语"- A "taboo" word for some of us...

Ever since English is used as the main medium of communication in schools and businesses, the language has emerged as the lingua franca of Singaporeans over the last 10+ years.

At present, a lot of Chinese Singaporeans speak Mandarin at a conversational level- spiced up with a "rojak" of English, Singlish, Hokkien, and even Malay etc. especially when we are lost for the suitable Chinese words.
Quite a number are quick to switch to English whenever we want to talk about any professional or technical content.

Sad to say... I am one of them...

During my primary and secondary school days, I scored distinctions for my Chinese Language in PSLE and 'O' level. However, I have lost touch of this language after stepping out to the society to work.

Well...there was a slight improvement when I had to constantly fly to China during my 1st job. The environment and the frequent contact with PRC agents, students & parents "forced" me to speak authentic Mandarin but thereafter, the language was considered "lost in transition".

The only time I write Chinese characters is when I send CNY cards to my relatives and each time, there is still a need to check the dictionary and "perfect" the strokes on rough paper before I can write them "professionally" on the card. Hee...

Some may feel that Chinese language is not very "IN" but I beg to differ...

I seriously think that Chinese is a beautiful language and its words are just so rich and flavourful!

On another note, we always talk about a LOVE for China.

But like it or not, an inadequacy in the language will inevitably hinder effective communication.

Wonder how many of you are like me?

We always say that we want to improve our Chinese but not much action has been done? :p

Perhaps, it is time to stop procrastinating.

"If you wait for perfect conditions, you will never get anything done." - Ecc 11:4 (NLT version)

The word "PURPOSEFULLY" has been ringing in my head ever since Bro Ed popped up the word during one leader's meeting a few weeks ago.

Isn't it true that we have to make "PURPOSEFUL" actions to fulfill our goals!

One of my goals this year is to PICK UP Chinese once again.

Like learning any other language, we always look into these aspects: LISTEN, READ/ WATCH, SPEAK and WRITE.

Here are some practical ways that I have adopted for the past few weeks...

Listen- FM 933 (Can listen to Chinese songs and at the same time pick up how the DJs talk)

Watch- News or shows on Channel 8/ Channel U... Can't remember whether it is Channel 8 or Channel U... Chinese "subtitles" appear on the screen as the news broadcaster speaks. I find this USEFUL!!!

Read- "我报" ("My Paper" is a good way to start... They have articles in both English and Chinese)

Speak- Practise speaking (I will "parrot" what I have just heard in order to remember it)

Write- Practise writing the characters + strokes to get the feel of the "spelling"




In order to have a fluent grasp of Chinese, I hv to "PURPOSEFULLY" include Chinese into my everyday life...

"... become all things to all men, so that by all possible means, I might save more."
- 1Cor 9:22

To effectively connect with my Chinese-speaking friends, I use their language and understand their culture.

Probably, you may ask... "Why the love for Chinese?"

Cos I hope to do mission work in China and while God gives GREAT DREAMS, a vision alone is NOT ENOUGH! I have to do my part to improve myself.

I love it durg SOT days, the Chinese interpretator Jia Qi or Sis Lulu will translate what the Pastor taught. I will then jot down the Chinese term for different words. (To all SOT students... Cherish these privileges... It comes in handy in the future!)

"A dream comes true after much activity" - Ecc 5:3

Two months ago, Diana asked me to be the Chinese MC for her wedding... but I politely declined cos I am not too fluent with the language... but after some "Ding-Dong", the arrow pointed back to me...

"God, are you trying to make me face somethg I want to avoid?"

Ok ok... I cannot be like this forever...

Imagine our Chinese-speaking parents or friends want to accept Jesus or you simply want to offer a prayer of blessing for them, you have to excuse yourself apologetically and say "Can I pray in English?"

This is what I have been doing for quite a while until the Holy Spirit prompted... "Joanne, it's time to get out of it!" Hee...

Of course, prayer is simply talking to God and our God can understand all languages, but wouldn't it be good to pray in Chinese so that the friends can better identify with the prayer?

I really hope to be comfortably bilingual in Mandarin.

Minister Mentor Lee recognizes the importance of the language too.

"...because I don't use it so much, therefore it gets disused and there's language loss. Then I have to revive it. It's a terrible problem because learning it at adult life, it hasn't got the same roots in your memory.”
May 2005, as Lee released a book, Keeping My Mandarin Alive, relating to his decades of effort to master Mandarin–a language which he said he had to RE-LEARN due to DISUSE.

Even our very own Pastor Kong is actively pickg up Mandarin as well.

Remember his interview with FIR, Jack Neo and "刘畊宏" (Liu Geng Hong)? His Mandarin has noticeably improved!!! *Salute*

I hope in time, I can be comfortably bilingual in Mandarin.

Rem... dun AVOID but... ... COUNTER!!!

So... what are we waiting for? Pick up our Mandarin today!!!




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